what best monopod to get

looking to get monopod. what best one to get. do not want feet. since one buddy had no feet. also fact was able to hold monopod to get camera steady as picked it up to tilt backwards to take pics of planes flying over my head or take it tilt backward to then turn keep camera stable to take as i turn around too. 

I have a nice, like new, Manfrotto in the classifieds. 

I have a nice, like new, Manfrotto in the classifieds. 

where is that in this forum i only on basic forum view since did not upgrade to paid member. 

On the main forums page there is a menu column​ on the left in which there is a 'classifieds' item. Click that and then 'accessories'.

Here is a link: All Classifieds - Classifieds - NikonForums.com

i found it. did not see on left side of this forum. on my paintball boards we have section area for it. 

I also use a Manfrotto, but don't use it that much, so can't really say much about it.

I have a Manfrotto 3249B, with a Manfrotto ball head attached.  It is a four section aluminum monopod, and very sturdy, even with relatively large lenses.  Manfrotto has a few to pick from and in general the larger ones are the most stable in my experience.

From what you are describing, I think you want a monopod AND a ball head.

i have monopod on way. i will look at getting ball head later. since will know if need it or not. since might not see to sat or Monday. will not be able to get my review of it. i have basic tripod. but want something more compact and more simple to set up.